It may have something to do with social discrimination and annoyingly high homophobia, India has more loyal, long-term gay relationships compared to the western world. But, often these relationships get monotonous with time. Result? Each partner gets tempted to look out for sexual companionship outside the relationship. Got scared? Worry not, we are here to help. Just ask yourself a question – why wait for things to fizzle out when you can live with sensual satisfaction. 

During all these years of living together, there are some aspects of naughty sex that you two may have wanted to try at some point. This blog puts together some naughty ideas that will make your man sexually addicted to you, only you. It offers some ideas that will hopefully give you and your man full-body, shaking orgasms. 

1. Kiss, kiss and kiss 

Disallow yourselves from doing anything, but kissing. Go as long as 30 minutes; this will compel you to get creative with your lips and kiss those parts that are usually dismissed during the act of lovemaking. Throwing a 2-person kissing party will turn benign sex act into something unquestionably naughty.

2. Try a new sex position 

Yes, India is the land of the Kama Sutra. But, that doesn’t mean your imagination can’t go beyond those positions discussed in the ancient Indian book of sex. Discovering your own sexual position and naming it yourselves is way more exciting than you think. 

If you want to get naughty, then you’ll have to own it. Remember, you are not going to be flawless while trying this out. But as long as you are confident, you will be able to harness your sexuality and power.

3. Get into things you never tried before

Once you get the position right, have the loudest sex possible. Sometimes, spicing things up is as simple as vocalizing your every move in bed and scream your faces off. Trust me, noisy sex is hot. 

Also, you don’t need any special toy to enjoy a good spanking session. Just grab your partner’s ping pong paddle before working the palm of your hand. Be gentle in the start, but don’t be afraid to take it up a notch higher, especially when you two start liking it. Tie each other up or handcuffs, try anything that can be somewhat intimidating. At the end of the day, it’s all about pleasure. Isn’t it?

4. Break the pattern 

This one is for those long-term buddies who have always been aggressive when it comes to sex. To break the monotony, whip out a couple of silk scarves and give blindfolding each other a try. In the darkness, together you may fumble a little bit. But, being deprived of view would definitely prompt you to be more tender in lovemaking.

For many guys, masturbation is entirely disconnected from the sex life they enjoy together. Masturbating for each other can be a great learning experience to watch your loved one touch himself. We recommend you to practice orgasmic meditation – a variety of genital massage that leads to a long-drawn-out climactic experience. 

5. Get creative 

 If Titanic was a gay love story, both protagonists would paint each other naked. Yes, that may sound odd, but you should definitely draw each other naked. Even if you aren’t a good sketcher, it’s fun to set the scene and get artsy for the sake of a great gay sex session.

It isn’t your cup of tea? What about cooking and eating a meal together naked? Consuming delicious food is satisfying to the senses. When you throw nudity and mix it with delicious food, the pleasure gets tripled. If possible prepare an aphrodisiac centric meal including bananas, pomegranates, and strawberries. On top of it, toast aphrodisiac with a glass of red wine to get hornier as you indulge.

6. Go shopping

Visit a sex toy shop. India is a country where sex toys aren’t sold in regular brick and mortar stores. You probably will have to go online and shop from stores like Babeland and Lovehoney. For a change, shop together that one little thing that you two feel can take things to the next level, sexually. In case you end up not buying anything, the act of browsing naughty toys together will spark a conversation around what you both want in the bed.

7. Try some sexting

Go back to where you two started – getting naughty over the phone. Take part in wordy sexting challenge. Sexts don’t always have to be image-based. Some guys are more verbal than visual and some erotic vignettes are more powerful than nude pictures. So limit yourselves to words, emojis and voice note to swap some ‘dirty’ messages at least 15-20 minutes a day. 

Use auditory sexts to narrate all the things you are desperate to do to each other later. Otherwise, read erotica in these voice notes. You can always search the Internet to get inspired.

8. Tape yourself during the ‘act’

Only fame-hungry doesn’t have to enjoy the process of shooting a sexy video. You too can tape you and your lover by pointing your phone towards the bed. For the sake of the camera, you can try seducing each other and rolling around between the sheets. Watching it together later is even better than making of the sex tape.

9. Surprise him

Take your guy by surprise by welcoming him home totally naked. Just lie on the couch casually and wait for his return. Whatever bad day he had at the work will surely melt away as soon as he finds your naked body on display. You can even try performing a striptease or giving each other sensuous lap dances. Just gyrate your hips and shake your booty. Your effort will be rewarded. LOL. 

10. Hold on for a while 

If these things don’t work out too, try not to have sex for a week. Regular sex is one of the many advantages of a long-term gay relationship. By swearing off sex for a week and keeping yourself away from masturbation will enliven your thirst for each other.

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