Imagine a scenario. You met a guy at a party and you two exchanged WhatsApp numbers. You didn’t think anything of it until the conversation between you two started getting pretty flirty. It escalated to the point where you shared nudes daily. This guy asked you to meet up tonight at his place. Now you are pretty sure you two are going to hookup, but the issue is that he’s a top, and you have never been a bottom before.
Here, the real issue is not a commitment, but your inexperience, which might make things awkward. So, how do you make sure this night goes well? Well, we are here to help you out. Team Blued India has compiled a list of tips for first-time bottoms.
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Groom yourself
Make sure to poop and shower before heading over. This may seem like a no-brainer but you must clean out your colon before having sex. Douching is by far the easiest thing to do to get this job done. To be assured that you have douched well, use Enema. It is made from medical-grade silicone and is safe and easy to use. Cleaning up beforehand will make sex more comfortable and remove all inhabitations you might have as a first-timer bottom.
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Use some finger
Taking a nice, warm bath will help you relax. After that move to some fingering to see how prepared are you. It’s important to be relaxed if you are nervous and tense. You might want to try fingering in the shower to see how it feels.
Right before losing your virginity, finger yourself before or have him finger you to loosen up. To ensure you don’t end up bleeding, make sure you and your partner’s nails are trimmed.
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Use lube
I can’t emphasize this enough but… one of the keys to first pain-free bottoming experience is LUBE, LOTS AND LOTS OF LUBE. Many first-timers think they won’t need lube for their bottoming experience. I hate to break it to you – you are wrong and just plain stupid! Apart from making your man wear a condom, having the right lube is one important factor of how to bottom with no pain for the first time.
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Find your position
Make sure you start slowly in your favorite position before it gets a little easier. Paying a bottom doesn’t mean to be submissive, or that your Top has to be in control of you. Riding your guy is a good way to self-manage how you take his ramrod. Being on the top of him will help you decide how fast, how much, and how hard you can go in a certain position.
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Be vocal
It’s your ass, so it’s you who will have to look after it. Don’t be afraid to tell your guy if it’s too hard, too deep, or too fast. It goes another way around too – if it’s not hard or deep enough make sure he knows that too.
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Save it for the other day
If it doesn’t feel right, don’t force it. It’s your first time and it has to be special. Make sure you are with a guy who is sensitive to the fact that this is your first time with a guy sexually. So, think before wanting to jump right into penetrative sex?
If the other guy is super horny, yet very aggressive, you have to tell him that pleasurable sex needs to be penetrative. Perhaps, you should start with a hand-job and work up to blow job if he is still keen.
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Yes, in point no 2 ( Paragraph 2 ) it’s mentioned that use some finger after douching to check whether the colon is clean or not.
The better and the most impact of cleaning is first you poop, after 15 to 20 minutes start douching with lukewarm water or normal cold water, let the water go slowly into the colon don’t be too fast doing this, as you drink water and you can easily know that we have over drink the water at that time how tummy gets heavier, in that same way while you leave water into the colon you will feel the same.
Let water go inside, hold the water for a moment, 20 to 30 seconds hold and drain the water outside from the colon.
Do this process 3 times normally, and in this 3 times the water will flow out with poop so don’t worry, in 4th time see the water runs out clean and take one time again water in and out if water flows out clean you are good to go, you can take any positions as you are clean.
After cleaning if you are not sure of cleaned colon, take self assessment, like don’t ise finger to check the colon is clean or not, take a small circular stick or any pencil you can use that is easily available in home as this pencil trick is more good it will not pain you and continues insert that pencil in your colon for 2 to 3 times.
If pencil go into the colon and comes outside without no poop you are awesome gorgeous hilarious to enjoy the ANAL SEX.
This anal sex process is for mens and womens both.
Do this process twice or thrice to enjoy.
Why m having problem to take inside a dick every time in my ass??
Having pain in every session
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