Homosexuality Terminology – From Roles to Labels for Dummies

Gays, Indian or Western, have their own vocabulary. Terms used to describe different roles and labels under the umbrella of homosexuality have gone through many changes over the years. However, some of them have passed the test of time. Not known to many, these terms further classify how a queer person wants to identify himself.…

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5 Kinky Confessions of Indian Gay Men

Exchanging erotic glances and nervous smiles are part of living as a gay man in India. Be in metros or bedroom, the fire between two gay guys is in the air. Taking a sizzling bold step, 5 Indian gay men shared their guilt-free sessions of passion with us. Look at these 5 honest, kinky confessions…

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Why Indian gay men dress up differently than their straight counterparts

“There must be some straight men who work in fashion.” That’s what I thought until I watched Queer Eye on Netflix. The show features plenty of straight men having a makeover of their whole lives by a team of five very gay men. Fans of the Queer Eye, including me, often enjoy it for all…

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Bottoming for the first time? Here are 6 tips to make most of it

Imagine a scenario. You met a guy at a party and you two exchanged WhatsApp numbers. You didn’t think anything of it until the conversation between you two started getting pretty flirty. It escalated to the point where you shared nudes daily. This guy asked you to meet up tonight at his place. Now you…

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Straight men on Gay dating apps – My perspective

Ever used an Indian gay dating app? Yes? Then, you must have come across many profiles that are operated by straight men. Interestingly, this scenario is very unique to the Indian dating scene as it isn’t a norm in western countries.  To understand, why many Indian gay dating apps have so many straight men, we…

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Polygamy or Monogamy – Which side of the Fence you are on? 

In this day and age of the internet, gay men too have different ideas about relationships. In the Western world, monogamy (the practice of having a sexual relationship with only one partner) and polygamy (the state of having more than one guy, at one time) are the two most explored ideas of romantic relationships.  Believe…

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Body Grooming for Indian Gay Men! What is your routine?

The way Indian gay men approach body grooming is changing. A few years back, chest waxing was a huge deal for any Indian men. Today, guys want to get them removed or experiment with body hair. They are looking forward to their trimmer, neater, not Ken doll-smooth self. The majority of gay men trims or…

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Why Indian gay men are comfortable using Bisexual tag?

While writing this blog, I couldn’t resist mentioning my friend Namzie who proclaimed himself bisexual on social media in 2009. He was dating (or at least pretending to date) girls in college while sleeping with his classmate in the hostel. He told me the tag “bisexual” made him look cool even though deep down inside…

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5 questions that make or break a potential gay hookup

It’s no secret that many of us feel connected to many guys on gay dating apps. But what if you want to take this mere flirty affair to the bedroom? So, if you’re interested in having an extremely enjoyable, orgasmic hookup, learn more about the guy you have been physically attracted to. Make sure you…

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Top/Bottom, Place, Where are you? SIX burning questions on gay dating apps

Folks, it’s time, to be honest. However sad it may sound but gay dating apps are used mainly for hookups. Even I, myself, am guilty of that. I grew up in a small town where there weren’t many options to meet other gays. The only way to meet other guys was a dating app. The…

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